Things And People Aren’t What They Seem. Sometimes in life you feel betrayed and hurt because you may have put too much time and energy into things and people. In the end what do you get?! Nothing!!!. You may see people at times and they may act like they are with you when secretly or behind the scenes they are not. They are just hypocrites passing through your life just to be inquisitive and to know what’s going on in your life.
Have you ever herd the saying not all that glitters is gold or wolf in sheep clothing. What do you get from these sayings? how do you interpret them?
You may have been in a relationship for a while and there you thought oh yes this person is this and this person is that. But then when you take a stop you realize its as if you didn’t know the person at all. You have seen something so different that you ponder, how did i not see that?. How could i have missed the signs?. You start questioning yourself, was any of it true?. Am I misjudging anyone else? are the people closest to me actually who they seem to be? .
It’s like you start questioning everything in your life because of the one situation that happened. This not only happens in relationships but also in friendships too even with family. You think you know a person and you never thought they could be that way because you just always try to see the good in people and not the bad.
And even though you learnt your lesson you still decide to see the good in others instead of focusing on the bad. There comes a time when a line has to be drawn. You need to start protecting yourself from making these same mistakes over and over. You become so skeptical that your afraid of letting anybody in or even make friends. Not everyone in this world is bad. You do have good genuine people but as the saying says, good things are hard to find. So don’t give up on people because their are still amazing people in this world.
I can attest to that. I have met some great friends over the years and to be honest do you think my best friend for years we started off on the best footing yes we did but then there was a bump in the road. There were people who didn’t like seeing us as friends looking back now I have to laugh. We have been inseparable since so don’t give up saying there is no one out there I can have as friend who I can confide in. Yes you do and if you have not that friend will com along in time. Keep courage and keep heart because your Best friend, friend or boyfriend/husband is out there for you.
You will meet some wolves in sheeps clothing along the way. Don’t let that cloud your judgement or hinder you from being open to having people in your life. And never let family deter you from reaching where you want to go because they say strangers are better than family. Anybody who wrote that quote knew exactly what they were saying. You have those family members who you will have to cherish. Love the ones who love you and love the ones who dislike or hate you. In the end its their conscience and not yours.
Remember to always BE YOU, DO YOU AND LOVE YOURSELF