Happy Monday!! It’s a new week thank God for his blessings no matter how small it is. Sometimes we sit and we wonder how is it that some persons know what’s going on in your life. You might start thinking back to who you told and how you thought it was spread. Not everyone needs to know what’s going on in your life or what’s the latest with you. Because sometimes the people you think are your friends are the ones that are just waiting for you to say something to start rumors.
And when they do, half the time they twist it to their liking or even add lies to it. When that happens it hurts, knowing you trusted that person and they betrayed you. Don’t get me wrong I’m not saying you shouldn’t have friends, but just know who your telling your story to and if you can trust that person. It’s better to have just a few friends that you share your life with. With the others just keep it at a social point of view. I mean you can say the basics you just don’t need to get into debt about it or tell them every single detail.
The main thing is when it comes to your relationship be careful who you talk to. Not everyone wants the best for you and will give you the best advice. Some people want to see your relationship work while some want to ruin it. Who knows maybe they want to ruin it for themselves to get the guy or girl for them self.
There are people out there who are great pretenders, they can pretend for months or years but at some point the truth will come out. I know it will hurt but hey you will pull through and god always knows what’s best for us.
If you have good friends that you can confide in, and you know your issues and personal life isn’t going to be aired on the street cherish those friends. Treat them just like how you want to be treated. To me my friends are like my family. When people ask, oh she’s my sister or my brother. When you have good and real friends it’s really a nice feeling. I thank God each day for the people I have in my life, they are there with me through thick or thin.
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Always remember to BE YOU DO YOU AND LOVE YOURSELF.