Love The Queen You Are | MsSparkleAndGlow

Love The Queen You Are

Love The Queen You Are. He lovess!! Happy Wednesday!. How are you all doing?. It’s been a while hasn’t it. As most of you know about my whole internet issue. Still working on it and trying my best to put out content for you all but when it comes to the videos still not sure when. I will be trying to pre record ok enough ranting now on to the post.

Can I be honest with you all? Can i get a little personal today!. For years I have struggled with with a low self esteem and thinking bad of myself. I’ve been called names like fish bone because I am  petite and one kidney. At the same time I have herd that I am a beautiful girl!. I have had mixed feelings for years about myself but as time went on I gained a little confidence.

There were times when I would look at myself in the mirror in disgust and say why couldn’t I have more weight. I have a birthmark that I got from my dad oh i can’t believe i’m writing this. The back of my legs are darker than the front and at some places its like you can see a outline of the different shades. Because my mom is of lighter complexion than my dad so i’m mixed with multiple colors. I have cloaked myself because I am embarrassed about it for years never wearing shorts or wanting to show my legs. Found excuses on top of excuses not to go to the beach sometimes.

The people closest to me always try to make me feel so much about myself but I still wasn’t convinced I was the beautiful girl they exaggerated me to be!. Yes I have a beautiful face but I hate my body and they would always curse me for that. I eventually got over my surgery scar from a younger age because to me I said that shows me that I am a survivor.  People would sometimes ask me what’s that scar for when I went to the beach. I would just tell them it’s my surgery scar. Some would keep questioning which sometimes made me uncomfortable because I don’t always like talking about my story

As years went on and I became an adult I developed acne and started having a skin condition you call tinea versicolor . I realized I should have appreciated myself and loved myself more. To my realization I started gaining more confidence in myself and loving myself despite my flaws especially since I started blogging. I have gained so much more confidence than in previous years. I have learnt that no one is perfect and that you can’t look on others and wish you had their body. You are flawless in your own way. Love the queen you are no matter if you have multicolored skin or many scars on your body.

What I realize now a days is people are wishing to have a body like these celebrities and instagram perfect bodies. Guess what that’s just a picture. It can be edited and made to look perfect so don’t wish to have a body like an Instagram model. Work on yourself and exercise for you not for anyone else.

I have gained so much more confidence in myself over the years and If I have you can too. Love yourself appreciate your flaws and embrace them!. Take it one step at a time. I’m determined to do a shoot on the beach in my kimono and shorts and I am gonna keep loving myself each day more and more. Do something each day that will help you to love yourself more. Whether its, scrubbing your body, exercising, making a skincare routine to boost your confidence do it!. Never let anyone tell you that you aren’t beautiful or disrespect your body. You’re beautifully and wonderfully made, you are loved!.

Have an amazing day loves!!!

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  • Reply Sandra Radojković

    So interesting post,dear! You are amazing, look so nice! These colors look wonderful on you! Weat colorsful clothes every day! Good photo, like it.

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    August 30, 2017 at 4:10 pm
  • Reply Ms Sparkle And Glow

    Thank you!!

    August 30, 2017 at 6:53 pm
  • Reply The Cassie Paige

    Such a great post! I love this! And you look amazing!

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    August 30, 2017 at 11:04 pm
  • Reply Ms Sparkle And Glow

    Thank you

    August 31, 2017 at 3:11 am
  • Reply Ms Sparkle And Glow

    Thank you

    August 31, 2017 at 3:12 am
  • Reply Katarina

    This is so true!
    I love this kind of motivational texts. *_*

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    August 31, 2017 at 7:40 am
  • Reply Nerline Germain

    You are beautiful and never doubt that. You have a beautiful smile, too. Thanks for sharing your personal experience with us. Great post!

    August 31, 2017 at 3:50 pm
  • Reply Caitlin | Beauty & Colour

    What a motivational post!

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    August 31, 2017 at 9:16 pm
  • Reply Yiotou_La

    Yes, I totally agree with all these points. We must love and embrace our bodies and love who we are and our flaws are what make us more special!! Happy Friday and happy new month! x


    September 1, 2017 at 9:26 am
  • Reply Jennifer from Toronto - Spiced Beauty

    Thanks for sharing. I'm glad to see that there is so much growth in you now! Keep on putting yourself out there ❤️

    September 2, 2017 at 1:35 pm
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  • Reply carolina g. ticala

    Beautiful! ❤️❤️❤️

    September 5, 2017 at 7:41 am
  • Reply demondi mian

    lovely post.

    September 7, 2017 at 7:07 am
  • Reply Sue-Tanya Mchorgh

    Yes girl! You are a queen.

    October 12, 2017 at 4:51 pm
  • Reply Ms Sparkle And Glow

    Thanks hun!

    October 12, 2017 at 11:52 pm
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