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Don’t Throw Away Something Permanent For Temporary

Don't Throw Away Something Permanent For Temporary

Don’t Throw Away Something Permanent For Temporary. Too often I see relationships fail because of temporary feelings towards someone they just met. To be honest no relationship is perfect and no one is perfect. Everyone has their flaws and if you can live with their flaws why go out of your way to explore something temporary when in the end up going right back to who was always there.

If you have someone who loves you for who you are, why go out of your way to ruin that just for a temporary hook up or someone who will run away when things get tough. Be appreciative of the person you have in your life. That girl or guy that makes you feel so happy go lucky right now will one day leave you and then it maybe too late to mend what was most important in the first place.

Women can be difficult at times to deal with. From time to time a woman may have trust issues, feel insecure etc. At the same time it’s all up to you to prove that she doesn’t feel that way instead of proving her instinct right.

Exploring may sound fun and sure it can be fun. If its that you want to explore then do not get into a committed relationship. And if its that you are in a committed relationship and you feel like you need to explore you need to think long and hard about the repercussions before you make that decision. You need to think about the long haul after you finish exploring that that person may not be there after. You may even loose the love of your life because of a temporary decision or feeling you had.

Every relationship goes through rough patches, things are said out of anger, a breakup may occur out of temporary feelings. Don’t let temporary feelings and anger ruin something great.

It’s better you leave a relationship if your not happy or you want to explore. Instead of leaving it out in the open to hurt the person more than they would have been already hurt if you break things off.  I really don’t get the point of exploring and sleeping around with many different people. Is it something that people want to tick off their checklist or something?. If you want to explore why can’t you explore with the person your with?.

Don't Throw Away Something Permanent For Temporary

Whats your opinion on this loves? I would really like to hear your opinion.

One thing I want to say to you all again before I go is. Don’t Throw Away Something Permanent For Temporary.

 

 

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13 Comments

  • Reply Lakeisha

    This is so true. I think a lot of times people act out of frustration and for immediate gratification. Relationships are hard, falling in love is easy. The work comes in staying there.

    July 13, 2018 at 4:33 am
  • Reply Michelle

    I love this! Too often we get into relationships without thinking about the future. “Aww, he’s cute” ain’t it! What does he bring to the table? Does he have potential to waste my time? We plan everything but our relationships sometimes.

    July 13, 2018 at 10:21 am
  • Reply Melody Jacob

    such good words
    This is so cute.
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    July 14, 2018 at 5:15 am
  • Reply Missy May

    You’re so right about this Kerona. No relationship is permanent indeed!!

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    July 15, 2018 at 2:51 pm
  • Reply Sophia O

    Great post, I agree with you throwing away something good for a temporary is not worth it.
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    July 15, 2018 at 3:15 pm
  • Reply Kay

    As someone who’s been in a relationship for over nine years, I definitely understand and agree with what you’re saying! 🙂 I think people (including myself) can be really impulsive at times, so it can be easy to lose sight of what really matters long-term. Thanks for sharing this, beaut! xoxo

    Kay
    http://shoesandglitter.com

    July 20, 2018 at 7:18 am
  • Reply Benita James

    Hi Kerona,
    I’m back to blogging and I’ve missed your posts like this. I wish many people could read this, a relationship is hard work and it takes both matured minds to go through it together in bad and good times. I feel that’s why relationships don’t last these days. Not everyone understand what it means to be in a committed relationship, any little issue and they are calling it quits. Lovely write up!

    Bernie, xx
    The Style Fanatic

    July 22, 2018 at 7:39 am
    • Reply Mssparkleandglow

      Hey Bernie welcome back!!! So happy to have you back!!. I’ve also missed you posting too.you hit the nail on the head so so true. Thank you!!

      July 22, 2018 at 9:04 am

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