Have you ever wondered Does he really love me ?. Does he mean the things he says to me? Is he playing with my heart? Will this relationship last? Is he cheating on me? Is he the right person for me?
We have all wondered these questions at some point in our lives. Whether it be in the past or our present relationship. Sometimes we have been hurt by others in the past. We don’t give a person the chance to prove themselves. Automatically we assume that they are all the same because we let our past cloud our judgement.
We should always give people a chance to prove themselves before we assume. Assumptions can ruin a relationship before it even starts. Especially when we start thinking to ourselves instead of asking questions.
Sometimes we get so much hurt and we are so scared that when the right person comes along we push them away. And in the end we realize our mistakes.
If you think a guy is cheating on you never go around snooping in his phone and things because you’re just setting up yourself for more hurt. If you actually find something or not. A part of you will always think that he is.
If a relationship is not meant to be it won’t last no matter what you do to try and fix it. There is a saying that says if you love something set it free if it comes back to you it was always yours if it doesn’t it was never yours.
You can’t know if a person is right for you when you just meet them. You have to get to know that person. At the same time you have to know what you are looking for in a relationship and what you want to get out of the relationship as well.
It takes two persons to start a relationship. It takes two persons to communicate and work on the relationship in order for the relationship to work and blossom into greater things.
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