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Be You Always, Not What Others Want You To Be

Be You Always

In everything you do Be You Always. People will judge you and say all manner of evil against you just because of how you are. Don’t change yourself because someone doesn’t like you for who you are. Be You Always, because there is no one like you and there will never be anyone like you. It’s ok for people to voice their opinion and their thoughts, however if it’s not something that will up lift you moving on!.

Yes it hurts at times when people have things to say about you but we all have to learn to not let what people say get to us. People have called me stuck up and boasty and others actually thought that because that’s what they herd. When they actually got to know me their remarks were, I didn’t know you were this cool person and so down to earth. I will always tell people this try not to judge people based off another persons opinion. Get to know people for yourself before you judge them.

Not everyone is going to like you and that’s ok. Some will pretend to like you to your face then drag your name through the mud behind your back. Don’t pay attention to them. You are important that’s why they are talking about you! Don’t you think so?. Always be you and don’t change yourself or your body because someone has a problem with you. Be yourself and love yourself for who you are.

We all have changes to make and if it’s not something that you need to change. For eg an attitude you have or a low self esteem or little flaws that you have that you need to change. If it’s not any of the above then to hell with them. People who genuinely care and love you won’t want you to change anything about yourself other than improving yourself.

Be who you want to be and not what others want you to be. At the end of the day you are the one who has to live with yourself not them. You are the one who has to love yourself first and put yourself first. Learn each day to stop caring what others want to say or have to say about you. As long as you know who you are what others say shouldn’t matter. If it’s not something to uplift you or build you what they have to say is irrelevant.

Always remember to BE YOU DO YOU AND LOVE YOURSELF.

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14 Comments

  • Reply Anonymous

    Yes, Be you! Everybody else is taken. In a culture where so many people are trying to be like someone else, it’s so important to stay true to yourself

    March 28, 2019 at 8:36 am
  • Reply Diani

    I consistently have to remind myself of this!No matter how old I get I think its something I’ll always be striving for!

    March 28, 2019 at 12:10 pm
  • Reply Natalie Heatley

    Being you is the best thing one can do! I have gotten the judgement about being stuck up but little did they know I’m a really laid back person, I don’t talk much.

    March 28, 2019 at 12:21 pm
    • Reply Mssparkleandglow

      And if you don’t talk much that’s ok because that’s you.

      March 30, 2019 at 4:51 am
  • Reply Kierra

    Thank you for sharing this! I’ve always had issues with needing validation. I love when you said, “At the end of the day you are the one who has to live with yourself not them. You are the one who has to love yourself first and put yourself first. Learn each day to stop caring what others want to say or have to say about you. As long as you know who you are what others say shouldn’t matter. If it’s not something to uplift you or build you what they have to say is irrelevant.”

    March 28, 2019 at 2:22 pm
  • Reply Michelle

    Yess sis! This lesson in life is one of those ” it might hurt now but you will be thankful later” lessons. It has taken me so long to grasp it. Thanks for sharing!

    March 29, 2019 at 12:54 pm
  • Reply TeAsia

    You are so beautiful! I love this post. Definitely something worth sharing with others.

    March 29, 2019 at 1:37 pm
  • Reply Kmac

    All of this !!!!!! Yes you are preaching what my therapist tells me every session! Thank you I needed to hear this again…

    March 29, 2019 at 2:35 pm
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