Sex isn’t the most important thing in a relationship. Some people may agree some may not; everyone has a right to their own opinion right? Some people think sex is the main factor in a relationship while some think otherwise.
The main factors in a relationship should be communication, love trust and honesty, sex and everything else will fall into place.
If you’re in a relationship because of how pretty or cute a guy or girl is that’s not love. You’re with someone only because of how their body looks that’s not love that’s just lust. If you’re with a person just for sex that’s not love that’s just basically friends with benefits that’s not a relationship.It’s basically just you having someone at your beck and call when you need or want them.
I mean if you’re only going to go in a relationship just to have sex then it doesn’t make sense. Because in no time once you get tired of that person things are going to end. The person might be hurt or even feel used. Be careful of how you hurt others in life because the wheels of life turn may take weeks, months even years but it does.
With a relationship comes sex and you have to be compatible with your partner also. For some people if they are not compatible they always say that the relationship won’t work. Yes it is nice having fun with your partner and having your alone time and with all that comes trust and communication.
Don’t force your partner into doing sexual things if they are not ready especially when the relationship is new. Not everyone is ready to always take the big plunge as they get into a relationship. Know that everyone is different and everyone isn’t the same.
Spend more time trying to find ways to loving each other more spoiling each other and pampering each other. Sex is just the icing on the cake. Don’t let it be the main factor in your relationship because things won’t get that far if that’s the main thing everything will crash at some point in time.
What’s the main factor in your relationship?
Do you think sex should be the most important in a relationship?