Accept The Love You Deserve

Hey there loves!! Hows everyone doing? Doing ok?

You know the love you deserve but yet you accept less than what you deserve. yes it does happen when you are blinded by love and you just close your mind to the flaws and the faults and you say oh, he will change and then when you see no changes you say I can live with it. Deep down it’s bothering you so much and you know what you need to do but you don’t want to have another failed relationship, you don’t want to start over again but at the same time deep down you know that’s what you need to do whether you like it or not.
If this minute your happy next minute you are sad why stay, live to be happy no one can make you happy but you, a relationship can’t make you happy so the right decision is to leave that relationship if it’s going no where. Your happiness comes first, you should be your first priority, your goals and dreams count and if he’s not supportive of that then he needs to go!!.
Why sit in a relationship where you see no improvement, a relationship is like a partnership you grow together as a couple and you help each other to grow as a person also so if he is not doing that then he needs to go!!!
Some would say a relationship is like an investment and we all know what an investment is right. When you invest in something you want to take care of whatever it is making sure everything is going ok and with a relationship you need to work on it for it to grow you can’t work on it sometimes and then another time you don’t, that’s setting yourself up for failure. Am I right or am i right?
Ladies and gentlemen don’t make yourself unhappy because you love someone too much to leave them if that person is not will to work on the relationship together your wasting your time, if they are not growing as a person and working on being a better person then you are wasting your time, If they don’t love you like the way you love them your wasting your time. Find the love that you know you really deserve or wait till it finds you. And never lower your standards on what you deserve what you should be really doing is setting the bar even higher!! And never think that you are not deserving of someones love because there is someone out there for everyone and everyone deserves to be loved
I do hope you enjoyed and found it helpful, don’t forget to leave your thoughts in the comments section share and subscribe!!
Previous Post Next Post

You May Also Like


  • Reply Malefica

    So nice and interesting post! Lovely story, like it so much!

    Have a nice day! ♥
    Visit my blog, Malefica

    February 5, 2018 at 8:52 pm
  • Reply Ashley Rae

    People don’t know how to let go wheb the situation no longer fits them. It’s easier said than done but with growth and acknowledgement of needed self-care it can be accomplished.

    February 6, 2018 at 1:56 pm
  • Reply Sydney

    A lot of people aren’t sure how to move out of toxic situations and don’t have the confidence to believe that they’ll find someone else out there for them. It’s hard out here lol

    February 6, 2018 at 2:42 pm
  • Reply Nerline Germain

    I know the kind of relationships you are talking about. It can be so toxic and misunderstood. Great post doll!

    February 6, 2018 at 2:50 pm
  • Reply LetNikkiTellIt

    This is so true pretty much never settle I love this

    February 6, 2018 at 4:04 pm
  • Reply sherri genesys

    Girl ain't this the truth: "Why sit in a relationship where you see no improvement…" Mic drop! So glad you wrote this post, a young lady or gent will need this sage advice.

    February 6, 2018 at 4:54 pm
  • Reply hadassah

    *double snap* yesss this what i need. What every girl needs to read. WE have to stop settling and get what we truly deserve, life is short and you should be happy

    February 6, 2018 at 11:27 pm
  • Reply Lyneisha Watson

    This is so true. I talked about something similar on my blog, Soul Feminist, last week. When entering any relationship you have to always remember your worth!

    February 7, 2018 at 5:19 pm
  • Reply Kiersten Jefferson

    This was such a great article and the message was more than on time for me and my relationship ❤️

    February 7, 2018 at 8:45 pm
  • Reply Ms Sparkle And Glow

    thank you!!

    February 8, 2018 at 2:21 am
  • Reply Ms Sparkle And Glow

    so so true!!

    February 8, 2018 at 2:22 am
  • Reply Ms Sparkle And Glow

    i totally know the feeling!!

    February 8, 2018 at 2:23 am
  • Reply Ms Sparkle And Glow

    thanks Nerline!!

    February 8, 2018 at 2:28 am
  • Reply Ms Sparkle And Glow

    thank you!

    February 8, 2018 at 2:28 am
  • Reply Ms Sparkle And Glow

    thanks for stopping by love!!

    February 8, 2018 at 2:47 am
  • Reply Ms Sparkle And Glow

    so happy you enjoyed reading!!

    February 8, 2018 at 2:51 am
  • Reply Ms Sparkle And Glow

    really i would love to have a read!!

    February 8, 2018 at 2:52 am
  • Reply Simone Glenn

    I know it may sound cliche but you have to learn to love yourself and then you will never settle for any relationship that doesn’t make you feel good!

    Great read!!!

    February 8, 2018 at 2:52 am
  • Reply Wunms K

    I completely agree! Sometimes people use time as an excuse as well. Like “I’ve been with _ for 5 years, I can’t leave”… but you’re right. You definitely can leave. Ultimately if it’s a toxic situation, not exhibiting the characters of real love that I personally believe in (i.e. Love that is patient, kind, keeps no record of wrongs, isn’t self seeking, forgiving etc), then it’s time to go.

    February 8, 2018 at 2:52 am
  • Reply Ms. Lynn

    I completely agree! I definitely don’t put up with mess and settle for less. There is too much going on in the world to put up with stress.

    February 8, 2018 at 2:52 am
  • Reply Ms Sparkle And Glow

    so glad you found it helpful!!

    February 8, 2018 at 2:53 am
  • Reply Ms Sparkle And Glow

    yes thats what they always say!! trust me i know that line all too well

    February 8, 2018 at 2:57 am
  • Reply Ms Sparkle And Glow

    thats so true, thank you

    February 8, 2018 at 2:58 am
  • Reply Rebecca

    I love this !! Very true. People can be very manipulative, and will say anything to keep you from leaving. It is scary to be alone. But, it’s even worse to be in a bad relationship. My husband and I have been through many growing pains, but I’m grateful that he is always willing to evolve, and work on his character, as I need to do as well. I respect and trust that. Many people just want to make excuses, whine and complain. It’s draining! Never settle! Enjoy being single, until your prince or princess comes along! 🙂

    February 21, 2018 at 6:53 pm
  • Reply aqua pure water softener

    Whoa! This blog looks just like my old one! It’s on a completely different subject but it has
    pretty much the same layout and design. Wonderful choice of colors!

    February 22, 2018 at 6:33 am
  • Reply coffee maker reviews

    Hi there! I know this is kind of off topic but
    I was wondering which blog platform are you using for this site?
    I’m getting sick and tired of WordPress because I’ve had
    problems with hackers and I’m looking at options for another platform.
    I would be great if you could point me in the direction of a good platform.

    February 23, 2018 at 2:27 pm
    • Reply Mssparkleandglow

      Hey I am self hosted through siteground which uses not .com hope i helped if you need more info you can email me.

      February 24, 2018 at 12:49 am
  • Reply alexa


    February 26, 2018 at 8:48 pm
  • Reply self-propelled lawn mowers

    Great info. Lucky me I found your blog by chance (stumbleupon).

    I have bookmarked it for later!

    March 8, 2018 at 10:54 pm
  • Reply lawnboy 10730

    Great post.

    March 15, 2018 at 7:50 pm
  • Reply lawnboy 10730

    Very descriptive article, I enjoyed that a lot. Will there
    be a part 2?

    March 18, 2018 at 4:25 am
  • Leave a Reply